Answer: Some women describe a highly erogenous area on the inner upper wall of the vagina and report they can "ejaculate" a fluid from their urethra (during orgasm)when this spot is stimulated. This "ejaculate" has been determined to be chemically different from urine, but the topic of female ejaculation is still somewhat controversial in the medical literature. It is not unusual for some women to spill some urine during orgasm. This is typically not a matter for concern, but if you're worried or there has been a change in your sexual response I suggest you talk to your physician. Men are not simultaneously able to ejaculate AND urinate (because there is a sphincter that closes between the bladder and urethra) prior to ejaculation, so your partner would not be able to urine inside of you. In some men, this sphincter (or valve) doesn't close and the ejaculation is forced into the bladder resulting in a "dry" ejaculation. There may be medical reasons for a retrograde ejaculation and a physician/urologist should be consulted. There is a practice called "urophilia" or "golden showers" when sexual arousal is connected to urination. A partner may desire to urinate on his/her partner or be urinated upon. It's possible that stimulation of the urethral canal was associated with sexual pleasure at some time or that urine may have been eroticized. As in all sexual practices, as long as there is no emotional or physical "harm" and the practice occurs between two consenting adults, it's your business.

Intimacy Q & A: Orgasm Issues