Answer: Remember that great lovers aren't born that way -- it takes lots of education and practice. Extraordinary passion depends upon a trusting committed relationship, good communication, and the willingness to try a variety of new approaches. I recommend the Better Sex Video Series and Ordinary Couples Extraordinary Sex video series. Whatever you do, remember that the purpose of sex is to have pleasure and to create a deeply personal connection with your special someone.

Intimacy Q & A: Orgasm Issues