Answer: Unless they're very large, most hemorrhoids are internal and only emerge during the straining of a bowel movement. In the heat of passion, it's doubtful that he'll be conducting a careful rectal exam. If anal stimulation is part of your sex play, have a talk with him about your concerns. You'll probably discover that it's really not a big deal to him. If they bother you (are uncomfortable, itch, or bleed) the surgical removal is a relatively simple process.

Intimacy Q & A: General