Answer: I'm delighted to hear that you and your wife are enjoying each other more and more after 22 years and 5 children. Good communication and variety are key and I congratulate you. I'm puzzled why you're concerned that oral sex keeps getting better. Oral sex is a highly sensual intimate activity where both partners can see, smell, and taste each other and allow themselves to be very vulnerable to one another. Mutually satisfying oral sex (like so many intimate activities) depends upon a high level of comfort and trust. As a loving relationship grows closer over the years it makes perfect sense that your sexual enjoyment would also increase. Instead of being concerned about your increased enjoyment, I'd suggest you celebrate it!

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