Answer: First of all,
make certain that you don't have a vaginal infection or
other GYN problem you may have overlooked. Normally, clean
vaginal secretions shouldn't have a strong odor and douching
is unnecessary. If you've had any changes in the smell,
amount of discharge, itching, or redness of your vagina,
see your M.D.
But don't jump to conclusions...you say "you think" your
boyfriend doesn't go down on you "because of the smell"--are
you sure? Have you asked him? Has he ever enjoyed going
down on a woman? It may have nothing to do with you. Some
men simply feel uncomfortable or awkward "down there." Perhaps
he just needs a little direction from you. Have a frank
intimate discussion. If you're close enough to have oral
sex, you should be close enough to talk about the details.
The Better Oral Sex Techniques video offered by Sinclair
may be a good conversation starter.
Intimacy Q & A: General