Answer: You don't say why you're not more active sexually. Is it a problem with your desire, erection, or something else? You also don't mention what treatment you received for your low testosterone and high prolactin? If the first six to eight months were "awesome" and things are now stable physically, we can assume that you both got off track in some way. Instead of trying to get the old sex life back, I suggest you look at this time in your relationship as an opportunity to rediscover one another "a new." You'll soon be married and that's definitely a new beginning. Take time to explore each other slowly and lovingly, make regular times to play and be sensual, read some sexy stories together or watch an erotic educational video. Put aside your worries and remember why you decided to spend the rest of your lives together. If this isn't helpful, see a sex therapist.

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