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Why Some Men Stop Wanting Sex

When You Lose Yourself in an Affair

When Pain Dulls Your Desire

When Fighting Becomes a Substitute for Sex

What To Do When The Red-Hot Attraction Cools

Unwillingness To Move On Can Be Roadblock To Intimacy

Too Busy for Intimacy

Thousands Experience Sex Addiction

Things Aren’t Important; People Are Important

There’s No Changing an Abuser, So Kick Him Out

The Rapid Graying of America

The Cruel Nature of Sexual Ageism

Sex Education for Your Kids

Relationship Power Struggles Put Intimacy at Risk

Read My Lips: There’s No ‘Right’ Orgasm for Women

Prostate Cancer Not Just an Old Man’s Disease

Premature Ejaculation A Common, Complex Issue

Porn and Spouse’s Low Libido

Narcissism Often Prods a Cheating Heart

Mysteries of the Big “O”

My Brother’s Legacy: Heed Testicular Cancer’s Signs

Middle-Age Couples Face Particular Challenges

Marriage Later in Life

Kisses Are A Barometer Of A Couple’s Intimacy

Insight Into Yourself Crucial To A Successful Remarriage

Infertility Issues Can Affect Sexual Relationship

How to Make Up for Declining Hormones

Having an Erection Doesn’t Guarantee ‘Good Sex’

For Your Valentine, Skip the Nightie or Microwave

Exploding Some Male Myths

Ejaculating Faster Than You Prefer: Not The End-All Of Intimacy

Don’t Wait to Make Your Connection

Dating Newly Divorced? It Pays to Check Baggage

Breast-Cancer Treatment and Diminished Sexual Desire

Before and After the Affair

Acting On Sex Fantasies Can Be Fun, Or Backfire

A Happiness Action Plan for the New Year or Anytime

A Father Fears His Wife Is Turning The Kids Against Him

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Dr. Sandy Scantling

Dr. Sandy has been widely quoted and has lectured throughout the country on sexuality, intimacy, and related subjects. 

She has authored numerous articles for the Connecticut Psychologist and has appeared on Fox TV Morning Extra and dozens of radio and TV shows including the TODAY Show, Good Morning America, The View, The Early Show, the BBC. Dr. Sandy has been the intimacy expert and columnist for the Hartford Courant and wrote a twice monthly Sunday column titled: “Intimacy, Sex, and Relationship”. 

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