GENERAL
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ORGASM ISSUES
ERECTILE DIFFICULTIES
What can we do to get our
old sex life back?
Question: I am a 31-year-old
male and my fiancé is 22. We have been together for three
plus years and are getting married this December. Everything
is perfect in every way, except ONE big item. "Our sex life"
or I guess it would be better-termed, "lack of sex life".
The first six to eight months was awesome in every way.
We both experienced each other fully and enjoyed it thoroughly!
My sex drive began to taper off substantially, and after
several visits to the endocrinologist, I found that my testosterone
levels were very low, and prolactin levels were high. My
sex drive was renewed in around three and a half to four
months. Following, we began to be more intimate again, but
no-where near to "the way it was"! Over the last year and
a half, I consider myself lucky if we are intimate more
than once a month! We have discussed the subject in every
way, and I have even tried alternate types of pleasure with
her such as toys, etc., etc. She has never tried any type
of sexual device nor does she want to. To ad fuel to the
"faux" fire so to speak, while making love she is completely
"not into it at all" and even gets angered if I try anything
new or even rub her breasts, etc.! What happened? What can
we do to get our old sex life back?
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How can I get my wife to
be interested in sex?
Question: I'm a 40-year-old
male, married for 21 years and my wife and I have three
daughters. My wife works the day shift and I work the third
shift and we never see each other. I'm still very sexually
active but my wife isn't and it's frustrating. My biggest
problem is that when we made love in the past it was "slam
bam thank you ma'am" and I was done. I've been able to get
an erection OK, but maintaining it for very long is impossible
which is a turn off for my spouse. She has gained weight
over the years after having three children and four knee
surgeries which prevented her from exercising. Whenever
we see each other I try to be romantic, but we are missing
something in our lives. I end up masturbating a lot for
my satisfaction, and my spouse does nothing as far as I
know. Is there help for me and or us?
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Why has my sexual desire
decreased?
Question: I have been married
25 years and I don't have the sex drive as I used to. I
prefer masturbation, but usually can't climax. I don't feel
like I can ask my doctor for help. Do you have any suggestions?
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What option do we have
for a three party?
Question: My husband and I have
been fantasizing of bringing in a third party (female),
in our lovemaking. What option do you have over that?
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Why doesn't intercourse
last longer?
Question: I am a 26-year-old
male in good shape. The problem that I'm experiencing is
that intercourse only lasts a few minutes, usually two to
three. I have been to a doctor and he said that physically
there is nothing wrong with me. I am lost for a solution.
My marriage is suffering and I am desperate for a solution.
Can you help?
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Why isn't my girlfriend
interested in sex?
Question: It seems that my girlfriend
of 7 years isn't at all interested in sex. I feel that she
has no passion, or desire for me in that way. When we talk
about it, she tells me that it's not like that. She says
that she does have desires for me. But, it seems the only
time that she has these "desires" is Sunday nights when
we go to bed around midnight. She also tells me that I need
to give her time. Is 7 years not enough? We live & work
together. We have lived together for 3 years. I'm starting
to lose my interest in sex with her greatly. When it comes
to foreplay, it's pretty much me doing it all. I love her
very much. I feel that I have been very fair and understanding.
We actually discuss this, but sometimes it turns into an
argument. How can I get her to start opening up to me sexually?
I don't want to cheat on her. But, masturbation can only
take me so far. Any ideas?
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How can I get my wife to
make quality time for me?
Question: I really am at my
wits end. I truly love my wife, but she refuses to make
quality time for me. There is an interest that I could pursue
in someone else, but choose not to do so. Please help me
to ignite the fires that used to burn all night long.
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